There are thirty eight members of the Ivy League Connection.
Thirty eight young men and women who will go to and study in world renowned universities.
Some will be going a second time, while others are new to this experience of
leaving your parents for up to three weeks. But in either event, we all must go
to the orientation.
We wait for the orientation to start. |
It took place at Pinole Middle School, where my sister
attends. It’s about a five minute drive from my house and now looks a lot better
than when I was attending that school four years ago. They now have a real
multipurpose room, with the walls all refurnished and the floor complete. I’ll
tell you, before the floor had tiles missing, the walls had holes in them, and
the color was one of decay. It was old, and you could see it by looking at it.
Anyway, my parents and I got there at about ten minutes to six o’clock, so we had some time to kill. We spoke with Tracey, our chaperone, and outlined the itinerary for our trip to the East Coast, what restaurants she’ll go to, and some colleges she’ll speak with to represent the West Contra Costa Unified School District. As six rolled around, I was raring to go. But alas, five people had not yet shown up. Mr. Charles Ramsey then told us again how important it is to show up on time and know where it is you’re going so you don’t get lost. Wise words from a wise man. He even gave us an example of how even if you are only one minute late to take the BAR exam to become a lawyer, they won’t let you in to take the test. Let me tell you, I won’t ever be late to any business related event after hearing that.
Charles Ramsey and myself. |
Then the actual orientation started. Don let all of the
chaperones come up and say who they are and what school they are going to.
First to go up was Mr. Hillier, followed by Ms. Tracey, Ms. Lilhanand, Mr.
Enfield, Ms. Neal, and Mr. Mannix. Then Don dived into all of the important travel
related stuff that we need to know. He told us about the items that he can loan
out, including laptops and power strips. There were even a few people who were
asking for one of each of the following: power strips, surge protectors, and
extension cords. This would give them sixteen sockets in all to plug in all of
their electronic devices. Don thought this was too many sockets, but is glad to
give them out if they need them. I, for one, don’t see why anyone would need
sixteen sockets, but with people having to charge their phones, laptops, iPods,
Kindles, iPads, and all other manner of electricity consuming products, I may
be wrong.
Don then talked about the various itineraries, having us
blog every night while we are over there, making sure we do in fact understand
the list of “I Understands” (A list of rules that we swear not to break) and
gave quite a bit of information for our parents. For example, Don told our
parents that they cannot follow us to the airport in the shuttle and that they
cannot visit us while on the East Coast. Mr. Ramsey also spoke a few times to
add emphasis on some of the more important points of the orientation.
We are told why never to be tardy |
The chaperones speak. |
We then spent a little more time talking about dealing with
packing our bags and who is going to bring what. Thus far it appears that Eric
will be bringing an iron, and that each of us will bring a fan to keep our
respective dorms cool.
Then at seven forty, we reconvened as a whole and discussed
some of the final things that we need to know before we go, like making sure
that we stay on top of our game while at our respective colleges. Don wants to
know what are rooms are like, so we’ll tell him. Don wants to know what the
food was like, so we’ll tell him. This is all in an attempt to make our
experience the best one they can provide.
Before we left, Mr. Ramsey congratulated us on finally being
official members of the Ivy League Connection. We had worked six hard months
for it all to come together and it finally has. I feel proud to be among such
smart and charismatic individuals, and at times their skills make me feel as if
I may not be able to compete with them. But that’s not what the Ivy League
Connection is about. It’s about comradery. It’s about making friends. It’s
about building connections and experiencing something new and exciting. It’s
about going to the East Coast and showing everyone what we’re made of. We’ll
show them that we have the “right stuff,” and may we all have a great time now
that we are an official part of the Ivy League Connection.
These comments are being written long after this Orientation, Liam, but even after those five people showed up late--with one of them showing up 18 minutes late, you’d think that it would have had an impact on our ILCers and their parents so we could count on them to show up on time for the rest of the ILC events.
ReplyDeleteWell, guess what?
That’s right, three showed up late for Departure Day and even one chaperone showed up late. What do you do when these young adults and their parents just don’t get it?
What do you suppose the reaction might have been at the Orientation had we shut the door promptly at 6:00 PM and refused entry to those showing up late?
Keep in mind that your informational email about this meeting did NOT tell you to arrive at 6:00 PM. It said we start promptly at 6:00 and that you were all to do whatever was necessary to arrive in enough time to find a parking spot, get signed in and be seated ready to begin. Yet still we had five of them show up late.
Were you aware, also, that even though you were all sent detailed maps on where to go, that five sets went to the wrong school--because they failed to read the instructions?
As we’ve been telling you all along, everything we have you do is for a reason and learning to read the instructions and follow the directions is a key part of learning how to be successful. Some of you already know that but others will need a few more lessons.
At the very least, we can use these as examples in future years about what NOT to do.
But you show up on time--don’t you? Sometimes even a month early. ☺